And your baby is the cutest!!!

Except…………..he likes to have women elsewhere. At first, I was hurt beyond measure, I couldn’t fathom why he’d want to go somewhere else when all the good lovin’ he needed was right here at home! I guess, though, that one can get used to anything the longer is goes on. He justifies his actions by saying that males have a right to certain things, women being one of them. Or rather, it’s in a man’s nature to be with more than one woman. For a woman, he says, it’s in their nature to want to be with one man. This applies for me.

A while ago, I read a Sister Soulja book (can’t remember which one) and there was a chapter called “Chance.” She explained how she fell in love with a man who had somebody already, and Sister Soulja wanted to share this man with the young lady (who was NOT having any parts of that). I feel like…if a man wants to have more than one lady, it shouldn’t be something secret, but a chance for two women (who might have a lot in common if he’s dating both) to grow close, in a non-sexual way, while still having their man.

My boyfriend chooses to keep these things secret from me, which causes me to be angry and resentful. Which in turn, makes me dumb his actions down to cheating. If he were open about these girl(s), I wouldn’t feel some kind of way. To him, though, a man isn’t capable of cheating.

I tell ya……the reasoning people come up with.

Anyway, excellent post!!!